Thanksgiving talk cards
You don't need a big speech. Print these cards, fill in what you can, and hand one to each person after dinner. One card is enough to start.
- 8 cards
- Prints on one page
- Free
Here's what I want you to know
Fill in each card before dinner. Leave a card blank if you haven't decided yet.
Cut along the dashed lines. Never write passwords or account numbers on a card.
My papers
My important papers are kept here
My will
The original of my will is here, and this person has a copy
Who speaks for me
If I can't speak for myself, I chose this person to decide for me
What matters to me
If I'm very sick, this is what matters most to me
My bills
If I'm in the hospital, this is how my bills get paid
Who to call first
If something happens to me, call these people first
My wishes
When the time comes, this is what I'd like
Your turn
What would you like to ask me while I can still answer?
- PrintThe week before
- Fill inOnly what you know
- Hand outOne card each, after dinner
Thanksgiving is Thursday, November 26. Not seeing your family then? The cards work at any visit, or by mail.
Good to know
When should I bring it up?
After the meal, when things are calm. Pick one card, not all eight. You can share the rest at your next visit.
What if my family doesn't want to talk about it?
Keep it short. Say "I'm doing this so you won't have to guess," and leave the card with them. Our talk guide has more ways to answer.
What shouldn't I write on a card?
Passwords, PINs and account numbers. Write where things are kept and who to call, not how to get in.
What if I can't fill in a card?
That's useful to know. If you don't have a will or haven't chosen who speaks for you, talk with a lawyer in your state.
Can my kids use these with me?
Yes. If they want to bring it up with you, our short note for a parent is a good start.
This guide is general information, not legal advice. Something wrong here? Tell us.
The cards are a start
We help you put every paper, account and wish in one place, so your family knows what to do.